A Different View
Doing the write thing this Christmas season
A Different View with Dave O’Connell
We’re a generation away from losing the ability to write. Not writing as in putting words together to form a half-coherent sentence, but writing as in taking out a pen and putting words down in sequence on a piece of paper.
The dearth of Christmas cards brought home the point – or maybe that’s just my Grinch-like approach to aspects of the festive season that have finally come home to roost.
There are still cards in the postman’s sack, but they’re mainly from older people – aunts and uncles who do what they always do and go out to buy a pack of cards (or purchase them in aid of a deserving charity), then sit down at the table, get out the address book and think of something slightly different to say in everyone of them.
That takes a lot more effort than a group text.
And now that they are fewer than they used to be, when you receive the card, you do read it and you acknowledge that someone thought enough of you to go through all of that – to give you a few minutes of their time to wish you well at this time of year, to find if you’ve moved house, and to go to the post office to drop your card with the others for delivery.
A group text, on the other hand, might be lashed off between pints in a pub at the Christmas party and while the thought clearly counts, you cannot guarantee the sender was really thinking at all.
The Americans have calculated that the level of Christmas cards dropped by one-third between 1997 and 2004. And given the advance of the iPhone since then, we can safely cut that in half again.
The same in undoubtedly true here – and the irony is that every survey you ever read tells you that more people than ever would love to get cards at Christmas.
The decline in writing correspondence doesn’t begin and end with Christmas, of course – remember the holiday postcard that always ended up stuck to the notice board or the fridge?
Whether it was two carrot-topped kids with their donkey and turf baskets from John Hinde or a beach scene from Torremolinos or Mickey Mouse from Orlando, it gave you a glimpse of someone else’s good time.
There was thought put into the message here too, with the kids even having to offer a word on their break; you might be sick with envy at your relatives’ great trip, but you also knew that they had taken time out of their holiday to think of you.
Go back through time to see the historical as well as sentimental value of a handwritten letter.
Imagine if soldiers at the front in World War 1 had the facility to send a text to their mothers instead of a letter.
For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.
A Different View with Dave O’Connell
The only time in your life that you should ever utter the words: “Do you know who I am?” are if you’ve just had a bang on the head or you are unfortunately suffering from dementia.
Because, otherwise, the phrase ‘do you know who I am’ only serves to make things a whole lot worse.
Normally, the phrase is unleashed towards late night door staff on a wave of alcohol – and never once in the history of time has it produced the result the utterer had intended.
The doorman may well know who you are which is often the very reason you’re not getting into the place in the first instance – or if he doesn’t know who you are, he won’t be unduly influenced when he does, unless you’re a famous movie star or his long-lost cousin.
‘Do you know where I am?’ might often be closer to the phrase you’re looking for, because that would serve you well when you’re looking for a taxi.
‘Do you know who I am?’ is a threatening phrase that in truth wouldn’t frighten the cat. But if you’re anxious to dig the hole a few shovels deeper, you should follow up with ‘I’d like to speak to your manager.’
Managers can be elusive at the best of times, but they’re normally rarer than hen’s teeth when it comes to the small hours of the morning – and even if they’re there, they are most likely watching proceedings on CCTV…just so they know who you are, in case you yourself can’t remember.
‘I’d like to speak to your manager’ suggests that you and he or she are from the one social sphere which is several strata north of the one occupied by door staff.
For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.
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As it turned out, we were much closer to a Eurovision win than we could ever have imagined – not Ireland, of course, because we’ve now mastered the art of just sending cannon fodder to be blown out in the semi-final.
No, this was just two of us – myself and our eldest – who were lucky enough to be at Anfield for the Reds’ recent win over Brentford, where positioned in the seat right in front of us were four happy lads from Finland.
One of them, we now know, was Käärijä, the singer of the catchiest song at Eurovision, Cha Cha Cha.
But just a week before 7,000 people sung his catchphrase at the Eurovision Arena, he and two his mates – accompanied by an older bloke who had to be either his dad or from the national broadcaster – sat anonymously in the same corner of the lower level of Anfield’s Main Stand.
He was utterly unknown to us as well of course, and the only thing that saw him stand out was his green nail varnish. Live and let live, of course, but it still ensures that you make an impression even if it looks like you were just very late for St Patrick’s Day.
Käärijä may well be Liverpool’s greatest Scandinavian fan, although the bar for that is set fairly high, given that they invade the city in greater numbers every two weeks than the Vikings did just once during the first millennium.
Equally, he may not be a football fan at all – although, as the rest of the week proved, he sure loves a crowd.
Positioned as we were in the corner of the Main Stand, the next section to us, around the corner in the Anfield Road Stand – currently adding a top layer – was occupied by the visiting Brentford supporters.
For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.
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A Different View with Dave O’Connell
Contactless payments reached a record €17.9 billion in Ireland last year – up by 31 per cent on 2021, as people came out from under their Covid shell and appear to have left their cash behind them.
Figures from the Banking & Payments Federation found that – despite the cost-of-living increases – the Irish public made three million contactless payments a day, worth an average of €53 million in the final quarter of 2022.
Given that there are 3.8 million people in Ireland over the age of 18, that means that almost every single one of us tapped the card every day last year.
And again, on the presumption that there are a few who still prefer peeling a fifty off a wad of notes, the true figure may be even higher, as we eschew actual money every time we go into a restaurant, bar or shop.
Then comes the monthly morning of reckoning when you open your statement – electronic of course because, like paper money, banks don’t deal in paper statements anymore either – and your guilty secrets unfurl like a rap sheet before your very eyes.
Five taps of a Friday night in the local, followed by a five-ounce burger meal on the way home.
And just why did you need a family-pack of crisps when a small bag would have done? Was all that beer and wine really for a party, or a night in just for one?
Cash provided plenty of dark corners to ignore your profligacy, but there are no hiding places in the contactless world.
Worse still, until that morning of reckoning arrives, you’ve no clue how much you’ve spent, and handing over the card doesn’t hurt half as much as parting with hard cash.
For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.
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