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Meeting to help parents cope with the loss of a child
A bereavement councillor who runs weekend camps for grieving parents is to address an open meeting of the support group Anam Cara tonight (Wednesday).
Peter Hanlon works with Barretstown in Dublin – a specially-designed camp that provides Therapeutic Recreation programmes for children with serious illnesses and their families – and the HSE as a specialist in suicide bereavement.
He will speak to parents in the Galway branch of Anam Cara about the journey through grief and loss after the death of a son or daughter.
The free specialist talk tonight – one of two given in the nine regional groups every year – is all about helping parents understand their grief, explains one of the founders of Anam Cara, former Galway resident Sharon Vard, who lost her daughter to a brain tumour at age 5.
“When you understand your grief it loses power over you. Initially parents feel so powerless. I’d lost my dad and I grieved. But when Rachel died come up on ten years, the carpet is just pulled completely from underneath you. You’re exhausted. You don’t know where to turn. It’s as physical as it is mental. You think you’re losing your mind.”
Set up by bereaved parents in 2008, the name Anam Cara translates as soul friend and was the title of the 1997 bestseller on Celtic spirituality by the late Galway-based author, poet and ex-priest John O’Donohue.
For parents who experience the sudden death of a child outside of a hospital or hospice, there is no follow up by authorities. This support group allows grieving parents to link up with each other and get group counselling from a professional free of charge. The focus of the monthly parent evenings is on ‘peer support with appropriate professional intervention’.
In Galway that is provided by psychotherapist Grainne O’Connell. ”We try and nomalise it. We do recognise where parents get stuck in anger and guilt – and they’re two of the most useless emotions, they take up a lot of energy but sometimes it’s easier than sadness. We try and walk them through their journey.”
Nationally, 2,500 families have to endure the experience every year. No matter what age the son or daughter was, or the circumstances of their death, to bury a child is unnatural, which is the reason why losing them is so difficult to bear.
“Meeting with parents a little further on in their journey gives newly bereaved parents some hope that in time, they too will find ways to cope with the intense grief and sense of loss,” said Sharon.
“There is comfort in knowing that you are not alone, that other families are dealing with the same tragedy, someone does understand.” Between 10 and 30 people attend the meetings, which take place on the first Wednesday of each month from 7.30pm to 9pm at Ballybane Enterprise Centre.
Significant state investment is required to address ‘shocking’ inequalities that leave cancer patients in the West at greater risk of succumbing to the disease.
A meeting of Regional Health Forum West heard that survival rates for breast, lung and colorectal cancers than the national average, and with the most deprived quintile of the population, the West’s residents faced poorer outcomes from a cancer diagnosis.
For breast cancer patients, the five-year survival rate was 80% in the West versus 85% nationally; for lung cancer patients it was 16.7% in the west against a 19.5% national survival rate; and in the West’s colorectal cancer patients, there was a 62.6% survival rate where the national average was 63.1%.
These startling statistics were provided in answer to a question from Ballinasloe-based Cllr Evelyn Parsons (Ind) who said it was yet another reminder that cancer treatment infrastructure in the West was in dire need of improvement.
“The situation is pretty stark. In the Western Regional Health Forum area, we have the highest incidence of deprivation and the highest health inequalities because of that – we have the highest incidences of cancer nationally because of that,” said Cllr Parsons, who is also a general practitioner.
In details provided by CEO of Saolta Health Care Group, which operates Galway’s hospitals, it was stated that a number of factors were impacting on patient outcomes.
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On the eve of completing his 150th marathon, an odyssey that has taken him across 53 countries, Loughrea’s Marathon Man has announced that he is planning to hang up his running shoes.
But not before Jarlath Fitzgerald completes another ten races, making it 160 marathons on the occasion of his 60th birthday.
“I want to draw the line in 2026. I turn 57 in October and when I reach 60 it’s the finishing line. The longer races are taking it out of me. I did 20 miles there two weeks ago and didn’t feel good. It’s getting harder,” he reveals.
“I’ve arthritis in both hips and there’s wear and tear in the knees.”
We speak as he is about to head out for a run before his shift in Supervalu Loughrea. Despite his physical complaints, he still clocks up 30 miles every second week and generally runs four days a week.
Jarlath receives injections to his left hip to keep the pain at bay while running on the road.
To give his joints a break, during the winter he runs cross country and often does a five-mile trek around Kylebrack Wood.
He is planning on running his 150th marathon in Cork on June 4, where a group of 20 made up of work colleagues, friends and running mates from Loughrea Athletics Club will join him.
Some are doing the 10k, others are doing the half marathon, but all will be there on the finishing line to cheer him on in the phenomenal achievement.
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From the Galway City Tribune – An impassioned plea for a ‘masterplan’ that would guide Galway City into the future has been made in the Dáil. Galway West TD Catherine Connolly stated this week that there needed to be an all-inclusive approach with “vision and leadership” in order to build a sustainable city.
Deputy Connolly spoke at length at the crisis surrounding traffic and housing in Galway city and said that not all of the blame could be laid at the door of the local authority.
She said that her preference would be the provision of light rail as the main form of public transport, but that this would have to be driven by the government.
“I sat on the local council for 17 years and despaired at all of the solutions going down one road, metaphorically and literally. In 2005 we put Park & Ride into the development plan, but that has not been rolled out. A 2016 transport strategy was outdated at the time and still has not been updated.
“Due to the housing crisis in the city, a task force was set up in 2019. Not a single report or analysis has been published on the cause of the crisis,” added Deputy Connolly.
She then referred to a report from the Land Development Agency (LDA) that identified lands suitable for the provision of housing. But she said that two-thirds of these had significant problems and a large portion was in Merlin Park University Hospital which, she said, would never have housing built on it.
In response, Minister Simon Harris spoke of the continuing job investment in the city and also in higher education, which is his portfolio.
But turning his attention to traffic congestion, he accepted that there were “real issues” when it came to transport, mobility and accessibility around Galway.
“We share the view that we need a Park & Ride facility and I understand there are also Bus Connects plans.
“I also suggest that the City Council reflect on her comments. I am proud to be in a Government that is providing unparalleled levels of investment to local authorities and unparalleled opportunities for local authorities to draw down,” he said.
Then Minister Harris referred to the controversial Galway City Outer Ring Road which he said was “struck down by An Bord Pleanála”, despite a lot of energy having been put into that project.
However, Deputy Connolly picked up on this and pointed out that An Bord Pleanála did not say ‘No’ to the ring road.
“The High Court said ‘No’ to the ring road because An Bord Pleanála acknowledged it failed utterly to consider climate change and our climate change obligations.
“That tells us something about An Bord Pleanála and the management that submitted such a plan.”
In the end, Minister Harris agreed that there needed to be a masterplan for Galway City.
“I suggest it is for the local authority to come up with a vision and then work with the Government to try to fund and implement that.”
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