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Baring her soul

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Meghann Scully, author of Broken Love: My Journey Through Loss & Grief: “It was never about sharing private details, but I wanted people to know I was so lonely,” she explains of the book. Photo: Joe O'Shaughnessy.

Lifestyle – Plunged into grief by the death of her teenage brother and her father in the space of eighteen months, Meghann Scully has found a way to come to terms with the desolation – by writing a book to intimately detail her emotional journey. She talked to Judy Murphy.

Appearances can be deceptive. Meghann Scully is proof of that. The 27-year-old Ardrahan woman lives in Limerick where she works as a presenter with Spin South West radio station. She’s beautiful, academically successful and, going by her social media accounts, has a great social life.

But behind the image there’s a far more complex story, one Meghann tells in her new book, Broken Love: My Journey Through Loss & Grief, which was launched in Galway last Friday. In it, she explores a journey that began with the sudden, shocking death of her 18-year-old brother Marcus on March 5, 2005, when she was just 15.  He and his friend Cathal died as a result of a car crash. A year and a half later, Meghann’s father, Maxie, died too, aged 52, “of a broken heart”, she says.

Her relationship with Maxie hadn’t always been straightforward, as she recounts in Broken Love. He and her mother, Pauline had separated when Meghann was a toddler. The family lived in Dublin at the time and Maxie, who was originally from Gort, remained there while Pauline and the children moved to Spiddal. Eventually, they settled in Pauline’s home place of Ardrahan.

Maxie was a complex character for whom marriage and fatherhood didn’t come easy. A former champion showjumper, who had represented Ireland internationally, he suffered kidney failure aged 21 and nearly died before a successful transplant.

He had been a distant father when Marcus and Meghann were small and it was only after 2000, when he, too, relocated to Galway, that father and daughter became close.

Meghann is as open in person as she is in the book, but it took a long time for that to happen.  One reason was because she witnessed how Marcus’s death had affected their mother.

She recalls hearing Pauline wailing during the night in the months after he was killed.

“Her crying in the hallway used to go through me,” says Meghann simply. “I had to supress my own feelings. She needed me.”

Some years later, while Meghann was doing a Masters in Journalism in NUIG, their roles reversed. She entered a dark place and Pauline told her “now it’s me being here for you”.

Broken Love is “about a young girl who loved and lost” as Meghann explains in the book’s foreword. She has no formal training in psychology but did a lot of therapy and tried different holistic treatments over the years, attempting to come to terms with her devastating loss.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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West has lower cancer survival rates than rest

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Significant state investment is required to address ‘shocking’ inequalities that leave cancer patients in the West at greater risk of succumbing to the disease.

A meeting of Regional Health Forum West heard that survival rates for breast, lung and colorectal cancers than the national average, and with the most deprived quintile of the population, the West’s residents faced poorer outcomes from a cancer diagnosis.

For breast cancer patients, the five-year survival rate was 80% in the West versus 85% nationally; for lung cancer patients it was 16.7% in the west against a 19.5% national survival rate; and in the West’s colorectal cancer patients, there was a 62.6% survival rate where the national average was 63.1%.

These startling statistics were provided in answer to a question from Ballinasloe-based Cllr Evelyn Parsons (Ind) who said it was yet another reminder that cancer treatment infrastructure in the West was in dire need of improvement.

“The situation is pretty stark. In the Western Regional Health Forum area, we have the highest incidence of deprivation and the highest health inequalities because of that – we have the highest incidences of cancer nationally because of that,” said Cllr Parsons, who is also a general practitioner.

In details provided by CEO of Saolta Health Care Group, which operates Galway’s hospitals, it was stated that a number of factors were impacting on patient outcomes.

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Galway minors continue to lay waste to all opponents

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Galway's Aaron Niland is chased by Cillian O'Callaghan of Cork during Saturday's All-Ireland Minor Hurling semi-final at Semple Stadium. Photo: Stephen Marken/Sportsfile.

Galway 3-18

Cork 1-10

NEW setting; new opposition; new challenge. It made no difference to the Galway minor hurlers as they chalked up a remarkable sixth consecutive double digits championship victory at Semple Stadium on Saturday.

The final scoreline in Thurles may have been a little harsh on Cork, but there was no doubting Galway’s overall superiority in setting up only a second-ever All-Ireland showdown against Clare at the same venue on Sunday week.

Having claimed an historic Leinster title the previous weekend, Galway took a while to get going against the Rebels and also endured their first period in a match in which they were heavily outscored, but still the boys in maroon roll on.

Beating a decent Cork outfit by 14 points sums up how formidable Galway are. No team has managed to lay a glove on them so far, and though Clare might ask them questions other challengers haven’t, they are going to have to find significant improvement on their semi-final win over 14-man Kilkenny to pull off a final upset.

Galway just aren’t winning their matches; they are overpowering the teams which have stood in their way. Their level of consistency is admirable for young players starting off on the inter-county journey, while the team’s temperament appears to be bombproof, no matter what is thrown at them.

Having romped through Leinster, Galway should have been a bit rattled by being only level (0-4 each) after 20 minutes and being a little fortunate not to have been behind; or when Cork stormed out of the blocks at the start of the second half by hitting 1-4 to just a solitary point in reply, but there was never any trace of panic in their ranks.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Gardaí and IFA issue a joint appeal on summer road safety

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Galway IFA Farm Family and Social Affairs Chair Teresa Roche

GARDAÍ and the IFA have issued a joint appeal to all road users to take extra care as the silage season gets under way across the country.

Silage harvesting started in many parts of Galway last week – and over the coming month, the sight of tractors and trailers on rural roads will be getting far more frequent.

Inspector Conor Madden, who is in charge of Galway Roads Policing, told the Farming Tribune that a bit of extra care and common-sense from all road users would go a long way towards preventing serious collisions on roads this summer.

“One thing I would ask farmers and contractors to consider is to try and get more experienced drivers working for them.

“Tractors have got faster and bigger – and they are also towing heavy loads of silage – so care and experience are a great help in terms of accident prevention,” Inspector Madden told the Farming Tribune.

He said that tractor drivers should always be aware of traffic building up behind them and to pull in and let these vehicles pass, where it was safe to do so.

“By the same token, other road users should always exercise extra care; drive that bit slower; and ‘pull in’ that bit more, when meeting tractors and heavy machinery.

“We all want to see everyone enjoying a safe summer on our roads – that extra bit of care, and consideration for other roads users can make a huge difference,” said Conor Madden.

He also advised motorists and tractor drivers to be acutely aware of pedestrians and cyclists on the roads during the summer season when more people would be out walking and cycling on the roads.

The IFA has also joined in on the road safety appeal with Galway IFA Farm Family and Social Affairs Chair Teresa Roche asking all road users to exercise that extra bit of care and caution.

“We are renewing our annual appeal for motorists to be on the look out for tractors, trailers and other agricultural machinery exiting from fields and farmyards,” she said.

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