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Acne and angst on the way as the teenage years dawn at last

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Date Published: 15-Mar-2011

Last weekend marked a major milestone in our house as our eldest became a teenager – frankly, with all the warnings I’ve had from parents who’ve been through this before me, I was expecting him to come home with an ASBO before the week was out.

There seems to be a sort of cycle of peaks and troughs to your average youngster’s life which begins with total dependency – but at least, because they can’t walk, they can’t cause you too much grief once they get enough food and sleep – through the terrible twos where you cannot take your eye off them or they’ll have either fallen down the stairs or stuck something up their nose.

Then there’s the trauma of school – trauma for you, that is; because they don’t mind at all – which gives way to the happy years when they’re old enough to communicate with you but largely in a positive way.

And then they morph into teenagers when they regress on the communications front, growling instead of speaking; and when they again spend most of their time lying down – only this time they’re on the iPod on the couch instead of lying in a cot.

The sense of anticipation is compounded by the fact that his younger brother is coming up fairly rapidly behind him to ensure these teenage years continue until 2017.

Stating the obvious, that’s our own fault because we bought into the notion that having children, like jail sentences, are experiences best served currently rather than consecutively – but as with shoes and school uniforms, the older one gets to go wear his teenage years first, breaking them in for the other fella.

Okay, so 13 isn’t exactly ‘trousers down at half mast’ territory or even those massive basketball runners where the laces for some reason never need tying, but it’s the first step to spots and real temper tantrums – as opposed to the mere hissy fits or tears of childhood.

Advance notice of this column, incidentally, brought an episode of foot stomping and head revolving, topped off with several loud groans to signify the insurmountable mortification that such attention is almost certain to bring.

But it’s hard to reconcile this growing lad, with the little being you one held in the palm of one hand, a tiny new-born utterly dependent on you for everything that keeps them alive.

These days, that dependence on you for everything to keep them alive revolves around money – lunch money, money for new runners, tracksuit bottoms, football jerseys and Dominos pizza.

Where once they held your hand on the way to school and ran to hug you on their way out, they now only acknowledge you if they’re looking for something – otherwise they would sooner walk out in front of speeding traffic than be seen walking with you on Shop Street.

Ahead of you lie the disco years (theirs; yours are over), the school tours to foreign parts, the girls (again, theirs; yours is your wife), the Buckfast and cheap beer, the Leaving Cert, College fees, the fact they don’t want to go on holiday with you but do want to go to Ibiza with their mates, the fact they want to live in a flat even though you can see NUIG from your front door – the fact that all of your money fuels their lives while the highlight of your night is when the key turns if they decide to come home.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Galway has country’s largest population of young people

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Date Published: 07-May-2013

Galway has a population of young people which is more than twice the national average.

According to information gathered by the Central Statistics Office, Galway’s population of 20 to 24 year olds is more than twice the national average.

The number of 25-34 year olds in Galway is also more than the norm nationally, with the two main colleges thought to be the main reason.

However immigration in Galway is much higher than in other areas at 19.4 percent, compared to the national average of 12 percent.

 

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Call for direct donations to city charity shops

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Date Published: 07-May-2013

A city councillor is encouraging people to donate goods directly to charity shops.

It follows allegations of thefts from clothes banks in Galway and across the country in recent months.

However, cameras are in place at some clothes banks and surveillance is carried out by local authorities.

Speaking on Galway Talks, Councillor Neil McNeilis said the problem of theft from clothes banks is widespread.

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Galway ‘Park and Ride’ could become permanent

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Date Published: 07-May-2013

A park ‘n’ ride scheme from Carnmore into Galway city could become a permanent service if there is public demand.

That’s according to the Chief Executive of Galway Chamber of Commerce, Michael Coyle.

The pilot scheme will begin at 7.20 next Monday morning, May 13th.

Motorists will be able to park cars at the airport carpark in Carnmore and avail of a bus transfer to Forster Street in the city.

Buses will depart every 20 minutes at peak times and every 30 minutes at offpeak times throughout the day, at a cost of 2 euro per journey.

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